It takes just as much time to plan a commitment ceremony as it does a same sex couple marriage ceremony, but for gay and lesbian couples there are a few important details to consider. Below is a guide to planning gay and lesbian commitment ceremonies or marriages, including a stage-by-stage calendar.

How To Plan a same Commitment Ceremony
Time Needed:

A typical commitment ceremony can take between 10-12 months to plan.

Commitment Ceremony Calendar
Follow the wedding ceremony checklist for a stage-by-stage timeline and guide to the essentials of a successful commitment ceremony.

Things to Consider:

• Type of same sex couple marriage Ceremony
  Depending on the state and country of residence, gay couples may have the option of planning a full marriage, civil union, domestic partnership, or commitment ceremony. You may also want to decide if you and your partner desire a religious or non-religious ceremony.


• Itinerary
  A typical ceremony and reception will take at least 5 hours, not including pictures taken in between the ceremony and reception. Take ample time to discuss your ceremony plans with your partner. Keep a notebook for important information and develop an itinerary of the ceremony day. Share this itinerary with the reception hall, DJ or band, officiate, venue and other people key to the success of the ceremony.


• Budget
  Take time to carefully plan the budget for your ceremony. Take into account the number of guests, the venue, entertainment, photography, rings, tuxedo rentals, etc. An easy way to plan a commitment ceremony budget is to allot a certain amount for each major area of the ceremony. Here is a simple break down:
• 50% Reception
• 10% Flowers
• 10% Music
• 10% Photography
• 10% Tuxedo or Dress Rental
• 5% Invitations
• 5% Miscellaneous

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